Reclaim Your Love Life with Somatic Coaching for Lasting Intimacy & Fulfillment

Somatic coaching for couples and individuals to go from disconnection to deep connection

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Embodied Somatic Coaching for Deep Connection and Authentic Intimacy

Facing intimacy challenges can feel super heavy . . .

Maybe there’s been betrayal, or you’ve felt unseen or unappreciated for way too long. Add the constant pressure of what society says you should be, and it’s no wonder you’re doubting your worth or tucking your desires away for "later."

And let’s be real, those feelings don’t just disappear. They creep into your relationship—causing emotional walls to go up, making rejection feel inevitable, or leaving you stuck wondering, How do we even fix this?

But . . . what if it didn’t have to stay this way?

Imagine stepping into a space where your unmet needs, messy feelings, and lingering guilt (yes, all of it) aren’t met with judgment or shame . . . but with curiosity and compassion.

A space where healing feels doable, and real connection doesn’t feel so out of reach anymore.

At Awaken Arousal, your story is seen, honored, and valued. Transformation begins by acknowledging every part of who you are and what you’ve experienced—without shame or blame.

Ready To Experience Deep Emotional and Physical Connection? 

I’m Steph, a Somatica® graduate and trained Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship Coach dedicated to helping you reconnect with yourself, embrace your deepest desires, and transform your love life.

You deserve support from someone who truly gets it—the fear of being vulnerable after past hurt, the hesitation to step into your sensual self, and the difficulty of expressing what you truly want.

Whether you’re longing to reignite intimacy in your relationship, heal emotional wounds that have held you back, or finally feel safe and confident in your sensuality, I'm here to help.

Nothing is taboo or too much for me—I welcome and embrace hearing about your deepest desires and fantasies with compassion, curiosity, and without judgment.

I know this journey because I’ve walked it myself—I’ve felt the weight of disconnection, the sting of shame, and the uncertainty of not knowing how to move forward.

But I also know the liberation, confidence, and peace waiting on the other side…

Awaken Arousal Inc. Sex coach Steph wearing a button up shirt with a tiger on it

A few years ago, I found myself lost in the life society had mapped out for me. 

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Outwardly, everything looked fine (I had the "picture-perfect" life, right?). But deep down, I felt profoundly disconnected and unfulfilled.

I had conformed to a story that wasn’t mine—stifling my authenticity, creativity, and desires.

That wake-up call? It was the beginning of a wild, messy, beautiful transformation.

I walked through a divorce, embraced my bisexuality, unearthed hidden desires (yes, those ones), and completely redefined my beliefs about love, intimacy, and what it means to truly live.

I also accepted my neurodivergence (hello, embracing the quirks!) and cultivated a resilience that helped me rediscover my joy and authentic intimacy.

And let’s not forget the playful side of this journey—I’ve learned to adore my inner weirdo, awaken my inner child with dress-up and creativity, and welcome every beautifully messy, taboo part of myself.

Now? I Live a Life Bursting with Color, Passion, and Authenticity. . .

. . .and maybe a bit of spice, too!

I’m all about playful, sensual dates with my partner, snuggling and adventuring with my sweet doodle, Emmie, and soaking up life’s magic (sunsets, sunrises, moon bathing—I’m a total lover of the sky).

You’ll also find me curled up with a good book (50 is the goal for 2025!), dancing like no one’s watching, or connecting deeply with the people I love.

I find joy in reading and writing poetry, camping, traveling, practicing yoga, and diving into astrology—I’m all about understanding the cosmos and how it shapes us.

Every little thing I do is part of a life filled with meaning, connection, and authenticity.

I’m intuitive, grounded, and gentle in my approach, but I’m also not afraid to get real. Nothing is off-limits here—your deepest desires, quirks, and fantasies are all welcome.

I’m here to help you shed shame, embrace your truth, and rewrite your own story (the way you really want it to be told).

Let’s talk about sex, connection, and everything that makes you you!

certified somatic coach Calgary Steph Silva

Credentials &

Education

  • Completed Core & Advanced Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach Trainings.

  • Completed the Somatica® Institute Character Strategies Mastery Class.


  • Trained through Submission to Source.


  • Dedicated to ongoing personal and professional growth.

  • Bringing a well-rounded perspective to my practice

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Why Somatic Coaching?

Talk therapy has its place, but when it comes to intimacy and sexuality, achieving real growth requires more than analysis. 

Somatic-based coaching is an immersive, experiential approach designed to help you reconnect with your body and elevate your capacity for vulnerability, mindfulness, and embodiment.

Using tools like breathwork, visualization, role-play, and skills development, the somatic approach empowers you to enhance your sexual, emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy in real time.

With my expertise in the Somatica® method, coupled with my personal journey and collaborations with other transformative coaches, I’m here to help you rebuild your relationship with yourself, your sensuality, and your intimate partnerships.

Ready to see what somatic coaching can do for you?

LIBERATED LOVE

Individual Coaching Program

Explore your desires and reconnect with your authentic self in a 12-session journey for individuals.

SOUL DEEP & SOLID

Couples Coaching Program

For couples ready to rebuild trust, passion, and strengthen connection with 10 transformative sessions!

30 DAY DESIRE

Deep Dive

Gain clarity and confidence in your intimate life with this focused, 4-session program for individuals.

Welcome to A Safe and Inclusive Space to Explore Your Desires

When you work with me, you enter a judgment-free zone where you’re encouraged to confront shame, explore vulnerability, and embrace your authentic self! Together, we’ll explore your desires, break-free from barriers holding you back, and nurture the connection you crave.

Through a mutually vulnerable and interactive two-way relationship, I’ll guide you on a path to deepen your sensual fulfillment, forge meaningful connections, and reclaim the spark in your relationships.

Tune in to hear more about my journey, and what led me to this powerful work, on this awesome podcast!