transforming your challenges into a deeply fulfilling intimate life is my ultimate goal

awaken arousal sex, intimacy and relationship coach Steph wearing a button up shirt with tigers on it

meet steph,

A Somatica® trained Sex, Intimacy and Relationship Coach with a craving to help you awaken your connection to yourself and your eroticism.  I work with people desiring to amplify pleasure, intimacy and emotional connection in their lives - within themselves, their romantic partnerships and future partnerships.

A couple of years ago, I found myself lost navigating a conventional path society had laid out for me. Despite outward appearances, I felt profoundly disconnected, unfulfilled, and lonely. Upon reflection, it became clear that the life I was leading felt stifling, flat and far from authentic. It wasn’t me!

I had conformed to society’s fairytale without thinking it through. Looking back, that time in my life was full of black and white thinking and colored in shades of gray, and not the sexy kind ;)

One day, my eyes jolted open and I decided it was time to break free and revolutionize my existence. I longed for transformation, eager to feed the creative, playful, magnetically sexy person concealed beneath my perfectly curated persona.  Since, I have gone through divorce, embraced my bisexuality, unearthed hidden desires, accepted my neurodivergence, vulnerably bared my soul (pssst - it is worth it!), redefined my beliefs and values, and cultivated resiliency along the way.

Now, my life has evolved in the most nourishing, authentic way. Bursting with color, it excites me to lead with my heart, passionately guiding others in discovering their intimate freedom.

i see you, and i’ve got you

I have weathered the storm - the passion-deprived and emotionally vacant marriage, the shame of divorce, the unraveling of societal and cultural constructs, low self and body confidence, late-blooming bisexuality, acknowledging my neurodiversity, and the renewal, discovery and beauty on the other side of struggle.

Prepared and fully committed, I’m here to share my wisdom in service of guiding you toward living your most authentically arousing life as your coach. 

Let’s turn dreams into plans and action, to ignite transformation in your life.

It is time to rewrite your fairytale together.

Awaken Arousal Inc. Sex coach Steph wearing a button up shirt with a tiger on it

Tune in to hear more about my journey, and what led me to this powerful work, on this awesome podcast!