Sex, Intimacy, & Relationship Coaching For Individuals & Couples

It's time to transform your relationships, connections, and pleasure and experience authentic and deep intimacy with yourself and your partner!

relationship and connection coach Steph

Are You Feeling Disconnected or Lost in Your Intimate Life?

It feels like something is missing—an invisible gap between you and your partner (and maybe even yourself?).

You might not even realize how disconnected you’ve become from your own needs and desires until the struggle feels too big to ignore.

You’ve tried EVERYTHING: self-help books, endless conversations, and even just ignoring the problem, hoping it will go away. But instead, the distance only grows.

What if I told you it doesn't  have to be this way.

Imagine waking up each day feeling emotionally safe, connected, and deeply fulfilled in your intimate relationships.

With somatic intimacy and relationship coaching, you can!

It’s time to shed the shame and embrace the freedom of a love life built on connection, passion, and mutual acceptance. Because you deserve to feel seen, heard, valued, and completely aligned in your relationships!

Calgary relationship coach featuring man and woman hugging.

Discover A Safe, Satisfying, Liberated Love Life With 1:1 Relationship Coaching!

Awaken Arousal offers a safe, judgment-free space for you to reconnect with your body, rewrite old patterns, and create the love life you’ve been longing for!

Here’s what’s possible:

  • Reignite passion and playfulness in your relationship, creating space for laughter, exploration, and joy.

  • Heal emotional wounds and release shame that has kept you from fully embracing your desires.

  • Discover the language of your body, learning to connect with your emotions and sensuality on a deeper level.

  • Build lasting trust and intimacy with your partner through open, honest, and vulnerable communication.

  • Meet new versions of yourself and your partner with grace, acceptance, and curiosity, creating space for growth and connection.

  • Experience fulfilling, soul-deep relationships that reflect your authentic desires and values.

Somatic & Relationship Coaching Personalized To You

Say goodbye to disconnection and step into a life of love, intimacy, and confidence!


LIBERATED LOVE

Individual Relationship Coaching Program

Explore and reconnect with your authentic self in a 12-session relationship coaching journey.

SOUL DEEP & SOLID

Couples Relationship Coaching Program

For couples ready to rebuild trust, passion, & strengthen connection with 10 coaching sessions!

30 DAY DESIRE

Personalized Intimacy Deep Dive

Gain clarity and confidence in your intimate life with this focused, 4-session program.

  • CARLA M, CALIFORNIA

    Steph is a heart-centered coach. She has an innate ability to tap into my underlying thoughts and feelings during our sessions, which always leads to my having better clarity around my wants and core desires. I feel safe sharing vulnerably with Steph and engaging in various experiential somatic practices with her, all of which has led to some incredible revelations around my connection and embodiment of my own pleasure. Steph has helped me better understand my attachment style with partners, and how to move closer to secure attachment with a partner in the future. I highly recommend Steph for any exploration around intimacy with self and with a partner.

  • ERIC J, SAN FRANCISCO

    My sessions with Steph are so fun! Her ability to use pleasure as a teaching tool makes exploration of desire extra effective. Steph provides a welcoming, sensual, and playful opportunity to explore my fantasies, learn to communicate them to a partner, and then actually play it out. It is fantastic and valuable and I look forward to more.

  • FINLEY J, VANCOUVER

    My experience with Steph has been truly transformative. Her guidance and support was instrumental in helping me heal and rediscover myself and my desire after my long term relationship ended. She has helped me build the strength to embrace my new life confidently.

  • ANTHONY H, WEST VIRGINIA

    Steph offers a kind, gentle, and thoughtful approach that can help you discover new and exciting parts of yourself you didn’t even know you were missing! Steph has helped me be more understanding of myself and my partners and see myself in a new light. She has a unique way of always getting to the heart of the matter and helping you heal, even when you least expect it!

Intimacy coach for individuals and couples

At Awaken Arousal, I help individuals and couples rediscover what it means to live a liberated, fulfilling, and deeply authentic love life.

Using somatic practices and an embodied approach, we’ll create a safe space to explore your desires, uncover what’s been holding you back, and make real, meaningful changes that stick.

Here’s how we’ll do it:

  • Break habits and beliefs that no longer serve you.

  • Build emotional connection and intimacy that feel nourishing and empowering.

  • Open the door to more passion, confidence, and self-connection in your life.

Whether you want to reignite the spark in your relationship, embrace more pleasure, or deepen your connection with yourself, I’ll be with you every step of the way.

Your most fulfilling love life is just around the corner!

Welcome! I'm Steph, Your Somatic & Relationship Coach

Your  Journey Starts Here

Getting Started Is Simple!

Step 1

Apply & Book a Consult

Fill out the intake form and book an initial consult call to learn about my process and to see if we’re the right fit.

Step 2

Start Your Program

Dive into a custom plan tailored to your specific needs and goals, using somatic practices to build connection and confidence.


Step 3

Enjoy Transformation

Feel the shift as you embrace intimacy, confidence, and peaceful connection in your life!

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Deepen Your Relationship and Build Lasting Resilience!

Introducing the Relationship Resiliency FREE Guide – your weekly companion for creating trust, emotional safety, and a stronger bond with your partner. 

Get your hands on 6 weekly conversations to strengthen your partnership

✓Fun, creative prompts to foster gratitude, trust, and connection

A step-by-step check-in process designed to bring more joy and ease to your relationship!

Begin Your Transformation

Apply to work with me!